Fixes#39
### Motivation
The match expression for the "app" label was incorrect breaking the antiaffinity since they would never match. Fixing this makes the podAntiAffinity work, but now requires at least N nodes to be in the cluster where N = largest replica set with affinity. Added the option to set the affinity type to preferredDuringSchedulingIgnoredDuringExecution where it will try to follow the affinity, but will still deploy a pod if it needs to break it.
### Modifications
- Fixed app matchExpression
- Added option to set the affinity type
- bumped chart version
### Verifying this change
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